A few months ago, we had the opportunity to host a fatherhood seminar, open to all fathers of Canopy Life students! The seminar focused on bridging generational gaps in fatherhood; the changing dynamics of being a dad and how generational differences shape parenting styles. We worked to create a safe space for fathers to reflect on their upbringing, share personal experiences, and explore how they can adapt to meet the needs of their children in today’s ever-changing world.
Opening Discussions: A Look Back to Move Forward
The seminar began with group discussions, encouraging fathers to delve into their own childhood experiences and how specific moments influence their current approach to parenting. A central theme emerged: the challenge of reconciling the strict, often authoritarian styles many were raised with and the more nuanced, empathetic parenting required in the modern world. Without completely adopting one parenting style over the other, we dove into what a good balance could be.
Parenting Styles: A Mirror and a Guide to Bridging Generational Gaps in Fatherhood
Mr. Mwongera’s presentation on parenting styles was a pivotal moment for many of the fathers who attended. He outlined four primary approaches of parenting —authoritarian, authoritative, permissive, and uninvolved. He then invited the fathers to reflect on both their own parenting methods and the parenting they received as children.
The discussions that followed were profound and eye-opening. Fathers shared heartfelt stories about how their upbringing shaped them, both positively and negatively. They also shared how they now navigate their own parenting journeys. Many realized that while their parents’ stricter methods instilled discipline, today’s world demands a more balanced approach—one that weaves love, understanding, and discipline into the fabric of their relationships with their children.
Balancing Love and Discipline
One of the most powerful moments of the seminar was a candid discussion on the tension between love and discipline. Some fathers admitted struggling to set boundaries because of their deep love for their children. This led to an engaging dialogue about the importance of establishing trust and open communication while maintaining firm yet fair boundaries.
The group concluded that effective parenting requires a delicate balance—a combination of intentional love and thoughtful discipline that helps children grow into confident, responsible individuals.
Building Bonds Through Activities
The retreat wasn’t all discussion; bonding activities played a key role. Games provided more than just fun—they offered lessons in teamwork, focus, and connection, mirroring the values essential to strong relationships with their children. Shared meals and informal conversations created opportunities for camaraderie, allowing fathers to exchange practical parenting tips and encourage one another.
Leaving with Tools and Hope
By the end of the retreat, the fathers left with renewed perspectives. They gained actionable tools to bridge generational gaps in fatherhood, navigate modern challenges, and be more present and intentional in their parenting.
At Canopy Life, we believe that empowering parents directly impacts the children we serve. We aim to create an environment where the love, attention, and care students experience at school are mirrored at home. When a child feels supported in both spaces, they are free to thrive, grow, and reach their full potential.
Through initiatives like our father’s seminar, we hope to build homes that, like Canopy Life, are filled with love, joy, and a deep desire for growth—a foundation from which children can confidently face the world.
Thank you to every single person who supports and prays for Canopy Life. Your support makes seminars and important work like this possible! If you would like to help support us and our end-of-year fundraising efforts, click here!